Domination and The Nice Guy

When we talk about domination, we’re not referring to kinky sex and bondage toys. What I am talking about is every guy’s natural capacity and wish to dominate his women.

And by dominate, I simply mean control – not allowing girls to dominate you.

Ask yourself these questions to see what’s your current position:

• Have you ever attempted to buy a girl’s affection with presents?
• Do you worry about saying the “wrong thing” around her?
• Are you concerned that she’s going to leave you?
• Have you now or have you ever had in your life troubled girls that you intended to “save”?
• Do you ask her to decide?
• Is there a girl who is always on your mind?
• Do you often ask yourself if she’s thinking about you, or if she misses you?
• Do you often go on – and pay for - dates, but seldom get a second date?
• Do you have the overwhelming urge to call her or check up on her?
• Do girls see you as a friend, but not much else?
• Have you listened to a girl complain about you or some other man she’s dating?
• Have you ever thought that girls are mean, unfair and only use men?
• Have you pretended to be friends with a girl, secretly wishing she’ll fall for you?
• Did you ever lack the balls to ask a girl for a date?

In case you are answering “Yes” to any of these questions, then you are being dominated by girls, not vice versa.

You may even have a condition known as “Nice guy”.

If you feel like you always try to please girls, get their approval or if you have plenty of platonic relationships but no erotic ones, you’ve got a case of the “Nice guy”.

Nice guys are so busy worshiping and pleasing girls that they frequently forget about their own lives, their own wishes, and their own drive. And I’m not overstating it when I affirm they worship these girls.

The chicks in a nice guy’s life are put so high up on a pedestal they are in danger of falling off, and frequently do. When a girl is worshiped like this, it puts an immense pressure on her, and she will inevitably back away from the situation and the nice guy.

When a girl means everything to a guy, she will buckle under the responsibility.

Not only will she let him down, but she will also leave him. Remember, she instinctively looks for a guy to look after her – to be everything to her. Not vice versa.

The women want a man that makes them feel safe, not infallible.

(This is an excerpt from the book STUD - The Ultimate Alpha Man's Manual, protected by copyright laws.).