Create Obstacles For Her

Create obstacles for her - this leads us to the second aspect of value: the romantic hurdle.

A romantic hurdle is something that has to be surpassed for “love” to occur.

Think of some romance movie or some romantic novel. Most of the script has to do with the man and the woman having to beat great difficulties just to be together. And the audience roots for them. It’s almost tragic if they don’t get together after all they’ve been through.

A hurdle adds great value to a relationship. It means the relationship has value as it has to be worked for, even if it’s something small.

Tell her: “I’d kiss you right now if there weren’t so many people looking at us.”

It’s a simple way to create a small romantic obstacle.

Obstacles are anything that must be defeated – anything that she has to overcome. This clarifies why girls are so invested in the “Asshole” guy.

She must work on her relationship with him. She’d just love to somehow transform him – to turn him into a nice guy. He himself is the hurdle.

She waits patiently and hopefully for the day that they’ll be able to be together all the time - but he currently just cares too much about his own life, or is too busy with his work or projects, or his hobbies.

Meanwhile, she keeps fucking with him, whenever he wants to, and she secretly hopes she’ll be the one who reels him in.

If you have done things wrong by becoming friends with a girl, and listening to her declaim about all the jerks in her life, you know what I mean.

I have investigated and interviewed hundreds of women on this topic.

And I mean hot, successful women – actresses, dancers, you name it.

And the conclusion is: the more beautiful, sexy or successful girls are, the more susceptible they are to value, hurdles and attitude.

Let’s accept it - beautiful girls always have a huge herd of sweet submissive wusses around them, and it bores them to death. Then here comes the ‘asshole’ and – boom – she can’t help herself.

Therefore a few things to remember:

The non-value wuss gives it away when he asks, “Can I buy you a drink?”

The high-value man makes her work for it and doesn’t buy her drink, even if she asks.

“No, I don’t buy drinks for girls I’ve just met. You can buy me one, though, and if you’re nice, maybe I’ll return the favor.”

The non-value wuss bores her to death when he says, “I wish I could kiss you.”

The high-value man creates romantic hurdles when he says, “I’d kiss you right here and now if it weren’t for all these people.”

You get the point.

(This is an excerpt from the book STUD - The Ultimate Alpha Man's Manual, protected by copyright laws.).