Create obstacles for her - this leads us to the second aspect of value: the romantic hurdle.
A romantic hurdle is something that has to be surpassed for “love” to occur.
Think of some romance movie or some romantic novel. Most of the script has to do with the man and the woman having to beat great difficulties just to be together. And the audience roots for them. It’s almost tragic if they don’t get together after all they’ve been through.
