Create Obstacles For Her

Create obstacles for her - this leads us to the second aspect of value: the romantic hurdle.

A romantic hurdle is something that has to be surpassed for “love” to occur.

Think of some romance movie or some romantic novel. Most of the script has to do with the man and the woman having to beat great difficulties just to be together. And the audience roots for them. It’s almost tragic if they don’t get together after all they’ve been through.

Make Her Work to Be With You

Make her work to be with you. She will value the relationship.

Therefore here and there, make it hard for her to see you so she has to work at it.

And never change your schedule around to meet her needs.

Prove Your Value

Have you ever almost had a girl, and done everything “right” and she still slipped away? Do you ever feel like you’re getting “lucky” when you get a woman?

If you are answering “Yes”, it means you have some attitude building to do. And it begins right now.

Domination and The Nice Guy

When we talk about domination, we’re not referring to kinky sex and bondage toys. What I am talking about is every guy’s natural capacity and wish to dominate his women.

And by dominate, I simply mean control – not allowing girls to dominate you.

The Lover's Attitude

Attitude is a multi-faceted concept. If you are trying to improve your erotic life and your success with girls, you’ve surely heard everybody teaching and preaching “use your attitude”.

And that’s totally okay, as long as you have the right attitude to start with. It wouldn’t be of much help to use your attitude if your attitude was completely wrong.

Initial Evaluation

Girls always analyze you as a potential long-term mate, no matter if they accept it or not. They can’t help it.

As soon as they are attracted to a guy, girls assess him. They do it sometimes consciously, but always subconsciously. They are ruled at the same time by their overall feelings (lust) and survival instinct (prudence).

The Evolution of the Mating Dance

To spot out these differences, and the way they connect to meeting and dating chicks, let’s analyze some history and some specifics.

From an evolutionary point of view – the male of the species is wired by nature to spread his seed and propagate the race. This is true of every form of animal life, and it’s true of us.

Natural Instincts

So what should we do?

We only need to look behind us – at thousands of years of evolution. Men and women are the same beings they were when we first got down from trees and moved into the cave.

The Wrong Messages

In the last century – and more and more lately – there’s this concept that girls aim to be a man’s equal. The idea is that they want guys to be sensitive, metrosexual, and even submissive. It seems like it isn’t so much about girls being manlier, but men being more womanly.