Make Her Work to Be With You

Make her work to be with you. She will value the relationship.

Therefore here and there, make it hard for her to see you so she has to work at it.

And never change your schedule around to meet her needs.

On the other hand, the nice guy is a wuss she can get to do whatever she pleases and it requires no effort, is not a challenge and consequently has no value. Therefore she’s neither going to work to keep him nor care if she keeps him.

Something-for-nothing is worthless to a girl.

Use every chance to convey your value, and to put a premium on yourself and your services.

A couple of action tricks:

• A great technique is to tell her, “You owe me for this” said in a slightly non-serious way, when you do anything with or for her.
• Another great example is to make dates with her and cancel one or two on once in a while.
• Unexpectedly tell her you must leave immediately.
• Think of her as, and treat her like, your bratty little sister.
• Don’t flood her phone with text messages all day. Only use texting for the vital info – like, “running late” or “be there in 10 minutes”.
• If you are flirting with her via text, turn your phone off in the middle of a back-and-forth with her, and don’t answer anything for several hours or until the next day. Don’t explain yourself.
• Never break your prior personal plans to be with her.

The Alpha Man Attitude (and here’s where you can start to rule over her):

The more time and effort she has invested in a relationship, the more she’ll be willing to keep it, and work to keep it.

(This is an excerpt from the book STUD - The Ultimate Alpha Man's Manual, protected by copyright laws.).